Old Toys Make New Fun!


It’s so nice to see the toys of the past being used by the grandkids!


Some of the best toys are the good old-fashioned ones! Rachael and I had lots of fun together today just bouncing the ball back and forth 🙂


Our Newest Addition

We’re thrilled to announce the birth of our new grandson, Ethan Caléb! Hargrove niños

Pictured above are our South American grandchildren: Micah, Rachel, & Ethan




So Many New Faces!

We’ve been amazed at how many new girls have joined the Torre Fuerte family recently. We thought we’d share an updated photo sheet for you to put faces to the names and see just how precious each one is! Please pray for each of these girls and their situations.

foto sheet

Having a large influx of new girls poses some challenges because they’re unfamiliar with the rules and polices at the Home and we have so few girls that have spent a lot of time in the Home to help set a good example.

There are far more little ones that we’ve ever had before. This is especially challenging for the dorm mothers who need to take care of the laundry, bathing, hair care, etc.

We are glad that the ministry is here to take in these young girls to give them care, protection, and love in Christ’s name.

It’s Not What You’ve Heard

I’ve been thinking about the words of Jesus in Matthew 7, about the wise man and the foolish man. You’re probably familiar with the passage, and maybe you’ve even sung the song. We think of it as a children’s lesson, but it’s really more than that:

Matthew 7
24 Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock.
25 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. 

26 But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand.
27 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.”


The point is not that smart people are more righteous, or even that we should build on a solid foundation, as good (though vague) as that sounds. The issue is what we do with the truths we learn.

We go to church and enjoy the praise music and a good message from the pastor. We listen to uplifting music and Christian radio. We read devotional books, read the Bible, and even memorize verses.

But, according to Jesus, a solid foundation is really not all about what we take in. It’s not about what we listen to, what we read, or how many verses we’ve memorized.

Both the wise man and the foolish man hear the words of Jesus. The difference is not in what they take in; the difference is what they do with the information they receive.  They both hear the words, but one “puts them into practice”, while the other “does not put them into practice.”

The believer who hears, reads, sings or memorizes the words of Jesus – and then puts them into practice – is like a wise man who builds on a solid foundation. What have you heard, and how have you put it into action?

James 1
22Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says.


Our current roster

Especially for those of you who have visited the Torre Fuerte home, and know some of our girls… here is our most current roster. Ten of these girls have been with us for over a year, and several have lived at the TF home for several years.foto sheetCould you pray for our girls? Daily? Here are some ideas to help you pray:

1. Pray for emotional/spiritual healing. Kids are resilient, but abandonment, abuse, and neglect are tough problems to get past. We see girls who are withdrawn, girls who are aggressive, and everything in between. Sometimes just a picture or a spoken phrase can bring back memories and move a girl to tears.

2. Pray for hope. Most of these girls have been in “survival mode”, and have given no thought to their future. We try to help them dream, plan, and pursue goals, especially focusing on a career. Pray for them as they study and learn to dream.

3. Pray for peace and harmony within the TF home. With so many girls from so many backgrounds, and with so much hurt, it is inevitable that we have occasional conflict. We work a lot on improving conflict resolution skills.

4. Pray for the staff. One of our dorm mothers recently left us, expecting to have a new baby in June. She has been a real blessing to our girls because she saw her work as more than just a job. She loves our girls. Pray for us to always find staff that will understand the nature of the ministry here and love the kids.

Thanks to all of you who support us, pray for us, and pray for the girls at TF. We appreciate the love and support you give. Come visit us sometime, we’d love to give you the chance to see the work first hand.


When it Rains, it Pours!

Living in Peru has it’s challenges. With the recent rainy season (which was extra long this year), there was a lot of flooding. Flooding caused many problems all over the country. From huge potholes in the roads to homes being washed away. The damage is something the country lives with on an annual basis.



The Torre Fuerte Home for Girls stood firm through all the flooding. However, the water system suffered a loss from the pumps being completely submerged, and Scott’s office was completely flooded. This is a costly repair and it was very difficult to not have any water for days. The pumps are now positioned to avoid submersion in the future, and Scott now has an office on the second floor.

Christmas musings #5

cross-in-mangerWhat was the message from the angel to the Shepherds? (Luke 2:10-11)

Do not be afraid. This is one of the most repeated commands in the Bible, possibly second only to ‘Praise the Lord’. When a powerful celestial being suddenly appears, lighting the sky above you with his presence, terror is an understandable reaction. To witness the glory of the Lord, whatever that might look like, is all the more spectacular. But God was sending these shepherds a message of hope.

“I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people.” Good news, of great joy. Not a new set of rules, another philosophy of life, or advice for clean living. Good news. That is what the Church has been given, and it is the source of the word “evangel.” In Old English, the word is “Gospel.”  Good news.
If you’ve heard that Christianity is a list of fun things you can’t do, you’ve heard from someone who’s doing it wrong. The authentic message of the Church is one of freedom, forgiveness, transformation, and eternal life. It’s Good News!

And to make the point as clear as possible, the angel was sent to common shepherds instead of the rich and powerful, with a message for “all the people.”

But the angel had more to say. “Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord.” In Bethlehem, the town of David, a Savior – the Christ had been born. The Greek word “Christ” is a translation of the Hebrew word “Messiah”. The angel was telling the shepherds that the long-awaited Anointed One – God in the flesh – had finally arrived. The Messiah who would save us from our sins.

There is one more phrase in the message that we must not miss. The angel did not merely say that a Savior had been born, but ‘born to you.’ He did not say ‘born to Mary’, or to Mary and Joseph, but ‘to you.’ The concept was not new, but it was – and still is – amazing. We see it many years earlier in the writings of Isaiah, where it was not an angel speaking, but a man. One of us.

“For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Of the increase of his government and peace there will be no end. He will reign on David’s throne and over his kingdom, establishing and upholding it with justice and righteousness from that time on and forever. The zeal of the LORD Almighty will accomplish this.”    Isaiah 9:6-7

Did you see it? ‘To us.’ ‘To us – a child is born, to us – a son is given.’ The Bible is clear on this idea. Jesus was a gift from the Father, to us:

“For God loved the world so much that he gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. -John 3:16

Christmas musings #4


We tend to think of everyone in Bible times as a shepherd, but the reality is that it was a job for boys, old men, or those without other options. They were unskilled workers who smelled like they hung out with animals. But while the Magi were led by a star, those common shepherds had an encounter far more profound. Consider this:

Nearly two thousand years earlier, when Moses ascended Mount Sinai, the glory of the LORD covered the top of the mountain. (Exodus 24:16)  The people watched from below, terrified.

After setting up the tabernacle in the wilderness, “Moses could not enter the Tent of Meeting because the cloud had settled upon it, and the glory of the LORD filled the tabernacle.” (Exodus 40:35)

And one thousand years before the shepherds, at the dedication of the new temple, “when Solomon had made an end of praying, the fire came down from heaven, and consumed the burnt offering and the sacrifices; and the glory of the LORD filled the house. And the priests could not enter into the house of the LORD, because the glory of the LORD had filled the LORD’S house.” (2 Chronicles 7:1-2)

In each of these significant events in the life of the nation of Israel, we see God’s direct presence in the somewhat mysterious phrase, “the glory of the LORD.” It was an uncommon occurrence, and one that marked an incredibly important point in the history of God’s people.

With that in mind, we come to this:

“And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified.” (Luke 2:9)

We can hear the passage so many times, and become so familiar with it that we miss the whole point. The glory of the Lord shone around them! Jesus, the Son of God, is worthy of greater honor than Moses (Hebrews 3:3), than the temple (Matthew 12:6), or Solomon (Matthew 12:42)

And so we understand the terror a little better and we understand that something important was happening; something that would, once again, change the course of history.

“But when the time had fully come, God sent his Son…” Galatians- 4:4-5

Christmas musings #3

three-treasuresInstead of bibs, pacifiers, and rattles, the Magi brought Jesus strange gifts that don’t make it into the typical diaper bag these days. But their gifts reflect a familiarity with ancient prophecies and an understanding of the One they came to honor:

Gold. Who gives gold to a baby? Who gives gold to anyone? It’s not a typical gift for a carpenter’s son. Gold is given by aristocrats; the wealthy, the powerful, royalty. It is a gift fit for a King, and it was a King they had traveled to honor.

Frankincense.  Surely a stranger gift for a baby than gold. It’s a resin derived from the sap of a tree, and burned as incense. It was used in the special mix of incense used in the temple (Exodus 30:34). It was a gift regularly offered to God, and so we read that they bowed down and worshiped the Christ child.

Myrrh. The strangest gift of all, if it were given to an ordinary baby. It was used to make the holy anointing oil used to consecrate the tabernacle and all of its utensils and set them apart for sacred use(Exodus 30:23ff). The next time we read about myrrh is when it was offered to Jesus while on the cross (Mark 15:23), and then when Joseph of Arimathea and Nicodemus used it to anoint his body for burial (John 19:38ff).

The Magi understood that this child would one day fulfill another important prophecy:

“But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was upon him, and by his wounds we are healed. We all, like sheep, have gone astray, each of us has turned to his own way; and the LORD has laid on him the iniquity of us all.” – Isaiah 53:5

The Magi seeking the newborn King remind us that His birth was the fulfillment of thousands of years of predictions, descriptions, and expectations by the ancient wise men and prophets who looked forward to his coming. And as it has been said, wise men still seek him.

Christmas musings #2

3cacc94c12a45bc33683082ec638770e“We Three Kings”, the song says. But we don’t know their number, and the Bible calls them Magi instead of kings. That’s where we get the word magician, but these guys weren’t simply showmen who could pull a rabbit out of their hat. They were the scholars of the day, from the east, descendants of the ancient wise men of Babylon and Persia. And it seems that they arrived in Bethlehem quite a while after Christ’s birth.

But how did a star motivate these scholars to travel to another land to search for a king and give him odd gifts? We read about other wise men from the east – both Babylonian and Persian – being led by the Biblical prophet, Daniel, during the captivity of the Jews there: “Then the king placed Daniel in a high position and lavished many gifts on him. He made him ruler over the entire province of Babylon and placed him in charge of all its wise men.”

And so the Magi knew the ancient prophecies. One in particular – a thousand years earlier, a fellow wise man of the east, a prophet named Balaam, had said, “I see him, but not now; I behold him, but not near. A star will come out of Jacob; a scepter will rise out of Israel.”  From those words, the Magi would have seen the connection between a new star and the long awaited messiah king in Israel.

From Daniel and others, they would have learned of prophets like Isaiah, who prophesied, “The people walking in darkness have seen a great light; on those living in the land of the shadow of death a light has dawned… For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”

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